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As December arrives and the world erupts into glitter and frenzy—deadlines, travel plans, family scripts on repeat—it is easy to get swept into the myth of the polished finale. The perfect year-end wrap. The tidy resolution. The flawless you.
But here is a thought: what if this season were not a culmination, but a pause? A moment not to perfect, but to accept?
This month, consider celebrating not the aspirational version of yourself, but the true one. The version that carries both laughter and weariness. That feels joy, frustration, hunger, tenderness, and dread—sometimes within a single morning. The version that still wrestles with anxiety, that still needs time, that forgets and forgives in the same breath.
Celebrate the you that succeeded in unexpected ways and the you that faltered where you thought you’d fly. Celebrate the anger you once buried and now dare to name. Celebrate the sadness that lingers without asking permission. Celebrate the unfinished conversations, the messy growth, the slow turnings of insight into action.
This is not resignation. It is reverence. Reverence for your own process.
To live well is not to control every emotion or accomplish every goal. It is to remain curious about who you are becoming. To stay patient with your rhythm. To offer self-compassion even in the face of imperfection. Especially then.
So if the world demands sparkle, let yours be the quiet kind. The kind that flickers in a cup of tea, a solitary walk, a moment of inward truth. You do not need to be ready, or resolved, or whole. You only need to be with yourself—gently, honestly—wherever you are on the path.
This season, celebrate you. All of you.